Mon Jan 12, 2009 4:42 am
Advice wanted: Hungarian family torn apart
I'm copying this from the original post at:
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A grandmother of two children has been asking for the help of Hungarian Anons recently. Her divorced daughter has married a prominent Scientologist 2 years ago and the situation gets worse day-by-day since then.
The 10yrs old grandchildren has decided to leave her own mother (!) and the new stepfather and all alone she moved to her grandparents w/o asking his mom. What a grown-up's decision for a 10yrs old children...
The new "dad" lives in the city of Pécs (pr: peach) and he is a very dedicated member of the local ORG. He is working as a "dating consultant" as he describes himself.
Since they have married the kids were under heavy physical and mental terror by the Scilon dad. The daily abuse they have suffered had the older girl leave his parents. His brother is still living with the abuser and thanks to the constant brainwashing he is now treating her sister as a traitor!
Of course their granny has been declared as an SP and Disconnection has been applied to her. Phone calls of the 8yrs old boy is under surveillance and he is being told what to say.
The marks of the ideological brainwash can be seen on the little girl as well. Once the grandparents took her to a psychiatrist she told that she is afraid of "being drugged against her will"!!
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Any advice appreciated, can be posted at the WhyWeProtest thread above or I'll try to bring forward responses here.
Here's my attempt at a response:
We have many similar stories about disconnection here in our personal experience forum.
Please do what you can to help them, and relay our best wishes and that we want to keep them in mind.
As we often say: THIS IS WHY we fight against Disconnection.
If she hasn't already, she should be in touch with any government family services if only to let them know about the situation, as well as the school. If there are cult experts in Hungary, it might be good to at least privately get in touch. It's also good to have many friends and family around which can help protect you.
I would also advice Hungary-anons to go to the Ex-Scientology kids message boards to get advice from actual ex-scientologists about situations just like this one:
I posted a thread for you here:
There may be steps taken which could "normalize" the relationship to a degree, such as never talking to each other about Scientology, and getting the situation down to one of "Good roads, fair weather". Perhaps even appealing to higher "authorities" in Scientology - but this might be dangerous. The grandparents should not do anything which could lead to a kidnapping situation.
Please keep in touch and tell us how it's going.
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A grandmother of two children has been asking for the help of Hungarian Anons recently. Her divorced daughter has married a prominent Scientologist 2 years ago and the situation gets worse day-by-day since then.
The 10yrs old grandchildren has decided to leave her own mother (!) and the new stepfather and all alone she moved to her grandparents w/o asking his mom. What a grown-up's decision for a 10yrs old children...
The new "dad" lives in the city of Pécs (pr: peach) and he is a very dedicated member of the local ORG. He is working as a "dating consultant" as he describes himself.
Since they have married the kids were under heavy physical and mental terror by the Scilon dad. The daily abuse they have suffered had the older girl leave his parents. His brother is still living with the abuser and thanks to the constant brainwashing he is now treating her sister as a traitor!
Of course their granny has been declared as an SP and Disconnection has been applied to her. Phone calls of the 8yrs old boy is under surveillance and he is being told what to say.
The marks of the ideological brainwash can be seen on the little girl as well. Once the grandparents took her to a psychiatrist she told that she is afraid of "being drugged against her will"!!
(...)
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Any advice appreciated, can be posted at the WhyWeProtest thread above or I'll try to bring forward responses here.
Here's my attempt at a response:
We have many similar stories about disconnection here in our personal experience forum.
Please do what you can to help them, and relay our best wishes and that we want to keep them in mind.
As we often say: THIS IS WHY we fight against Disconnection.
If she hasn't already, she should be in touch with any government family services if only to let them know about the situation, as well as the school. If there are cult experts in Hungary, it might be good to at least privately get in touch. It's also good to have many friends and family around which can help protect you.
I would also advice Hungary-anons to go to the Ex-Scientology kids message boards to get advice from actual ex-scientologists about situations just like this one:
I posted a thread for you here:
There may be steps taken which could "normalize" the relationship to a degree, such as never talking to each other about Scientology, and getting the situation down to one of "Good roads, fair weather". Perhaps even appealing to higher "authorities" in Scientology - but this might be dangerous. The grandparents should not do anything which could lead to a kidnapping situation.
Please keep in touch and tell us how it's going.
