Auditor Chris Parker
A couple of days ago; I confronted a young woman who didn't want anything to do with me, and was actively seeking to keep one of my clients away from me. She was telling my client that she had become more assertive since coming to see me.
When I said hello, she just looked away and sat on the floor.
I sat on the floor as well, and I asked her, " how do you want your life to be for yourself?". " It doesn't matter" she said.
I told her that a long long time ago,when I was much younger, I wanted to be a concert guitarist. I would practise every minute I could. I imagined that people would love to listen and I would tell stories about the songs, the people who wrote them and everyone would have a great time. And I told her that I had forgotten my dream at some point in my life.. and how some people die... long before they're burried. And that's what happens to most people.
I asked her..." when you were a little girl and your daddy had you on his lap.. and you told him of how your life was going to be of value.. how did you describe it to him?
"I was going to ride horse's and play in the snow. I was going to be happy and everyone would love me. I would have a house with a big fireplace and eat pumpkin pie and not get fat! I was going to be pretty.. and most of all I was going to be loved and loved back".
She had tears in her eyes and I asked her if that is the way it is supose to be. Yes, she said. I told her that, it wasn't going to be easy, but, it would be worth it... because even though I didn't become a concert guitarist.. I found a way to make people happy. And I too can be happy. And the best thing is.. is that tomorrow I am going to buy a guitar and start practicing again".
And I made her a deal.. that if she meets me 1/2 way... I will make sure she can live the life she is supose to, and she can help me live my life, by making sure I practise and play a song for her in a week!
She really liked that and started to laugh and said that if I made any excuses, she was going to kick my butt, like I kick hers when I audit her.
I guess that my win was; that I used the Tone Scale.. communicated with mimicry and used her agreements to communicate with.
Now, I am sure that some would say that there isn't any kicking of butt in a session. Yes, your right. There is no process with that.
But we do look at changing a persons life and accountability.
Does the auditing have a value... and what were you able to do, because of it. Making sure my clients get the gains LRH promised is what I mean by... Kicking butt.
Yes, feeling good is great.. but doing something for someone is of greater value... that's my arbitrary. And you are welcome not to have it.
Chris
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