Did you "choose" a Scientology family?

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Yes growing up as a scientologist I was told that I am "above and beyond" the average person because I chose my parents. I chose to be born into a scientologist family etc.

I find it weird when people say that they were told that they were past life clears. I thought that people were supposed to have their own recall of this last life and remember being or attesting to clear in the last one. Not that somebody would end up telling you that you were one. So I don't get it. I hope there is somebody who knows. I do recall two people in the Sea Org telling me that they remember their past lives. One of them had attested to Clear, so I asked her if she was this life or past life Clear and what gender she was. She told me that she was a past life Clear and was female in her last life too.

my mother (i don't like to call her mother really but whatever...) said i was the one that pushed her into joining the sea org.. and yeah, she told me the story of "u chose me" too... sorry but i would've never chosen her ^^ to me.. that thing is a lie.. but i respect everyones beliefs.

CJR,

You are so right. It is not fair for the kids who are forced into Scientology. Children look to their parents to set an example so they can go forward in life and do well scientology works against the family and works against relationships. Im sorry you had to go through this.

Welcome to this mb.


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For sure. My mother, in particular, was fond of deflecting any accountability for her abusive behavior if any of her kids dared protest. Her stock response was something in the realm of "stop being a victim. you are responsible for choosing this family." I don't remember a specific conversation that explained how we chose our parents/family, but I am aware of always having known it, at least as far back as my memory goes (5 or 6 years old). I started courses as soon as I could read, so no doubt, I learned it somewhere in there.